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Julie: Hi there, just blog hopping. You ave a great blog here. Keep it up, good luck with the writing.
Krishna: Hi, Blog hoping! Have a very nice day!
glenndel: hi,nice blog here, care to exlinks???
Boink: Happy Weekend!
Marie: Hi all, it's wet and dreary here - hope it's brighter there.
Jeannie Ruesch: I'm thrilled you ladies are enjoying the WIP Notebook! Thanks for the comments. :)
Marie: Hi, love your colours and layout.
Pika: blog hopping.... nice header!
Hazel Quinn: Hi! LOVE your journal name. I write coz I can't help myself & want to exchange links with quality sites. Would u care to exchange? Best wishes ~Hazel Quinn
Amy: Oops! I forgot to post on Saturday! My only excuse is I was writing away from the net and it completely slipped my overtaxed mind!
Amy: Knock Off is a Desert Rose Finalist! Go Babe Rhonda!!
Pika: oohhh.... i like this
Rhonda: I'll add a feed if you tell me how :>)
Realm: hi there
Korner: blog hopping
Bits & Pieces: hello...
Caffey: Hi, can you add a feed to this blog. I'd love to put it on my google reader. Most blogs have the feeds so the blog can be read in one place. Thanks. I'm so glad I found it. Leanne, who I love to read, told me about it!
Lainey Bancroft: The Babes books are in my blog spotlight! Thanks again!
Mandi791: Hey just stopped by to say hi! If u have any more links left, would u like to exchange?
Amy: Charlotte has answered questions! Go back and read 'em.
Cheryl S.: I'm going to have to go with Charlotte Hughes also.
Maureen: Okay, my guess...Charlotte Hughes
Jonella Beauty: Hi Babes, Your blog is wonderful.
rhonda: Thanks Lainey!
Lainey: Hi Babes! I gave you a much deserved award on my blog!
Rhonda: Don't forget to run out and buy your copy of KNOCK OFF - the paperback is available wherever books are sold. KNOCK EM DEAD will be out at the beginning of March.
Amy: Any one guessing about the guest blogger? post your guess here!!
Amy: Happy New Year Everyone!
Toni: Just stopping by to check whats going on.
GK: happy new year..care to exchange link?if so let me know so I can add your link to my blog.
mandi791: Merry Christmas :) and Happy Friday to you
Lainey: Hey Babdes! You and your fabulous prize pack are the stars of my blog today. A million thank you's for the early stocking stuffed with goodies! xo
Garf: care to exchange link
Lainey: T'anks Babes. You're the Bestest!Great contest, and I thought ALL the Odes were fun!
The Babes: Congrats Lainey! Your Ode earned the most votes!!
Amy: Thank you Redstrength! I'll pass it one to him.
redstrength: Your husband sounds like a wonderful man. I thank him and you for your service to out country.
B abes: Don't forget to vote for your favorite Ode. There are seven great ones from which to choose!
Amy: Happy Halloween Everyone!
Toni : Just stopping by to say have a safe Halloween!
Peggy: I was just blog hopping and stumbled upon yours. It's great! Keep up the good work!
Babes: We're launching a contest on 10/29 - watch for details this week!
Rhonda: The Heather Graham will be here all week. PLEASE don't forget too thank Donna for her guest appearance and fabulous answers from last week! Rhonda
Amy: Donna will be answering all your questions today. Be patient
Rhonda: Hi Cheryl and welcome!
Cheryl Norman: I just discovered this blog and have bookmarked it. What fun I had "visiting" you today!
Rhonda: Heather Graham is Coming! 10/15-10/19, it's NTY Bestselling author Heather Graham Week here at BabesinBookland. Don't miss the opportunity to hear what she has to say!
Rhonda: Uber-Agent Donna Bagdasarian will be here to answer any and all questions 10/8-10/12!!!! You won't want to miss this opportunity!
corina: One reason why I enjoy stopping by this blog, is the very direct approach the authors here take. That in itself, seems to be a scarce quality this day in age. God bless.
MURPHY: HELLO
redstrength8: Great Blog!! I really enjoyed your "Lucy" stories.
lutchi: blog hoppin`, nest blog you have here, hope you can visit mine too sometimes. TC
Toni : Just passing by and decided to rest on your blog. Feel free to stop past mine too.
Pollero: Thanks Holly - we are so happy to have been honored with Journal of the Week. Babes Rock!
murphy: just stop to say hi
Holly: Hi there! Congratulations on winning JOTW!
Kerri: Just surfing through and thought I'd say HI and congrats on JotW.
MURPHY: HELLO
sparkle: Hello, I am just around the neighbourhood and dropping in to say hi to all the bravers here. Have an peaceful weekend
Melissa-V: Greetings! Just surfing through other writer/author journals. Glad to meet you, have bookmarked and will return again soon.Cheers!
Kim: Woohoo! Thank you! I'm already a big fan of hers.
Rhonda: Way to go Kim!!!! Congrats! As soon as we get the link up for Amy's website, you can contact her for your autographed book.
Kim: Is the new babe Amy J. Fetzer?
Rhonda: Nope, not Heather, but good guess
Marilyn: Is the new babe Heather Graham?
witchykitten: Just doing some blog hopping :)
medicine: good article!
Kim: Thank you so much for the books and bookbag!!
lorraine: your online journal is just too pretty :D i love it!! keep it up! tc
Kim: Woohoo!! I guessed it right!
Cheap auto insurance quote: Nice site thank you
Rhonda Pollero: Only 2 guesses, sheesh - there's free stuff at stake herre
JackieToo: I would have to say that the new babe is Janet Evanovich.
Kim: A new babe...I'm going to guess Mary Stella
sparkle: dropping by the neighbourhood to say Happy Easter Holiday
Sulome': Hello, Nice Blog! Very Amusing reading! Kindest Regards, Sulome'
LesaDragon: Ah.. ok. Can do. Ahem... Check, Check.. is this thing on! :) Couldn't resist. THANKS!!
becky: Hi Lesa - we're gearing up now - keep checking back!
LesaDragon: if you had a contest? Where would it be? and would the post title read "contest?"
star: hiii, nice blog kawaii !! ^__^ good luck to you
Becky: Thanks Corina, the Babes are always happy to entertain, amuse and sometimes pass on info that might have some value!
corina: i was amused in reading this blog...it's refreshingly candid, and in an odd sort of way: "Cute". Have a great weekend.
LesaDragon: I have seem so many, it's hard to pick just one. When I saw this question from Cherry, it reminded me of the story about the "Hot Santa" cover. :)
BARBARA REGIS: MAD WORLD BY PEPPER ESPINOZA - WHISKEY CREEK PRESS - IT LOOKS LIKE SOME CHEAP PORN
Cherry: Question of the Week!What is the worst cover you‘ve ever seen?
Rhonda: Don't forget to sign up for the mailing list and add your location to the guestmap - we'll be starting a contest soon and we don't want you to miss out! The Babes!
june: Great blog, Love thesound of the book.Sending hugs,June
Ccarla Alleyne: love Cherry's books waiting for my book club to get more of her books.
Mary Stella: This looks like great fun, but no skimping on your personal blogs! I'll add the Babes to my blogroll!

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Saturday, July 19th 2008

10:43 AM

30 yrs of packing...unpacking....


I’m a pro at packing.  Selecting what to wear… not so much.

When we returned stateside after 6 years in Okinawa, I was fashion clueless.  You can buy beautiful brocades and silks in the Orient, but you can’t wear them.  Too hot and humid.  You’ll look like a dishrag in ten minutes.   So I wore cotton.    Unfashionable cotton.   The first time I walked into a US department story, I looked around at all the choices and burst into tears.  I didn’t know where to start and my choices were all bad.  Then a wonderful friend, Jodi Greenfelder, who loves to shop came to my rescue.  Her fashion sense is terrific, and she'd select outfits all the way down to the jewelry and shoes. 
So if you saw me between 93-96 when I was president of OCC/RWA, Jodi dressed me.  Very well too.  =)

Without her expertise, I turn to the younger sales clerks for help.  Last year, before Thrillerfest, I needed new clothes.  I asked the sales girl to pick out 10 outfits, then returned 3 days later and tried it all on.  She was on the mark because I told her what not to include, and I bought it all except one dress that looked like it came from my high school closet.  I was grateful.  I don’t like to shop and loathe clothes shopping.  My advice, work those sales people.  I’ve learned most are just itching to help you select something than work a register.

Packing 101. 

Make a list of what clothing and accessories you have and will take, and one for what you need to purchase, have altered, whatever.  A little prep work goes a long way.

Select two outfits per day for a conference and that depends on your personal schedule and whether what you’ve packed can transition from day to evening.  (Just changing jewelry, shoes, and deepening your lipstick can do that, btw)  I make certain I have a couple extra tops.  I’m a klutz, it’s a given I’ll ruin something.

Before packing, lay it out with lingerie (I forgot that once!) match jewelry, shoes, handbag, then zip lock all small items together or put them in the handbag.  If you’re taking it in a garment bag, attach the baggy to the hanger.  No guess work.

Note:  Zip lock bag all liquids because on long flights, jet pressure will cause them to leak.  Bought new?  Removing an inch of product will help stop that too. 

Jewelry and cosmetics.  I pack cosmetics, but carry-on jewelry.   Traveling over seas, I used to wear the good stuff to be certain it stayed with me.  If you have a roll up cosmetic case, unroll it and lay it like clothing, assuring liquids are protected.  Same with jewelry.  Snack size baggies are great for keeping your earrings with the necklace.  If you want to pack them, slip them in the center of your suit case, a couple layers from the bottom.  

Garments.  Pack the largest first and with the least folds.  The flatter it is, the more you can pack.  Use that uneven bottom in a rolling suitcase to your advantage.  If clothes dip, fill it with lingerie.  Lay slacks and jackets on the bottom, shirts on the left (the right for heavy stuff, see below) and use all corners to tuck in lingerie, hose, and shoes.  Wrap the shoes in plastic wrap individually, that way you can put them in odd spaces and those silk shoes will be protected.

Now this one is just my thing…
Pack heavier items on the handle side of the suit case.  That way, when you stand it up, its less likely to fall over.   Its bulk settling at the bottom that makes them tip and towing it be easier.  If packing a duffel bag type suitcase, heavier items go in the center for balance when carrying it, but even distribution is always better.

Don’t pack outside pockets of a suitcase, save the space for the return trip goodies.

To discourage anyone from opening your suitcase, when you check in for the flight, ask the airline attendant to put airline logo tape over the zipper in 2 strips in 2 directions, then sign where the tapes cross.  Bad people won’t even try to tamper with it.  

Unpacking.  If its possible to do it in your hotel room, unpack.  That way, you're not rummaging through a suitcase and can dress faster.  It makes the stay less stressful.  Take an hour to press it all and hang it up.  Saves time when you're in a rush.

Sharing a room.   If you have a room mate, a little consideration goes a long way.   You're sharing the cost equally, so don't dominate the small space.  It smacks of Prima dona and can ruin your trip    and the friendship.

Imo, nothing is worth losing a good friend.

Also, you're roomies, not joined at the hip.  Different schedules, goals, appointments, friends, etc.  If your roomy has to be somewhere at X time and looking lovely and you don't, get out of the way or help press clothes.  Not a problem for me, I'm 'Marine wife' fast and can be ready for public viewing in under 30 minutes.  Pretty damn handy with an iron too.

Lastly, bring play clothes, comfy stuff.  Most often, it’s a half dozen writers in one room, late at night, chatting, and comfort is heaven after a long day of networking.  

Have a good weekend Babes and Bloggers. 

I cannot wait to see your faces and play!!!   

AMY



 

1 Comment(s).

Posted by Mary Stella:

OMG, Amy. Will you come to the Keys and show me how to pack my suitcase like you do?
Saturday, July 19th 2008 @ 2:41 PM

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